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Jingle Bells, Not Alarm Bells

December 12th, 2025 - Barbara Buckett

How to Stay Out of Hot Employment Water This Christmas

Christmas parties are meant for laughter, not litigation. Yet every year, what starts as festive fun can spiral into awkward conversations with HR—or worse, legal trouble. Before you swap Secret Santa gifts and hit the dance floor, here’s how to keep the cheer without risking your career.

Watch the Booze. Eggnog is great, but overindulgence can lead to loose lips and looser boundaries. Alcohol lowers inhibitions, which means comments or actions that seem funny in the moment can cross into harassment territory.

Tip: Pace yourself and remember—your employment obligations don’t take a holiday.

Beware the Secret Santa gifts.  Gag gifts can be fun, but steer clear of anything that could be offensive or discriminatory. What’s hilarious to one person might be humiliating to another.  The litmus test: If you wouldn’t give it to your boss or your grandmother, don’t give it at all.

Put an electric fence around social media broadcasts. Posting party pics? Think twice before tagging colleagues or sharing videos of questionable dance moves. Privacy matters, and oversharing can lead to reputational damage. Golden rule: If it’s not something you’d want on the company homepage, keep it offline.

And oh, the mistletoe myth. Romantic advances at work events are a slippery slope. Even consensual interactions can create awkwardness or claims of favouritism and power imbalance. Bottom line: Keep it professional—mistletoe belongs in the movies, not the office.

Be inclusive. Not everyone celebrates Christmas. Avoid jokes or themes that exclude or stereotype. A party should feel welcoming for all, not like a cultural diversity minefield.

Christmas parties should be about celebration and recognition of the mahi, not job jeopardy. A little mindfulness goes a long way in keeping the season merry and bright—without HR calling you in for a chat come January.

Need help navigating workplace policies or managing festive-season risks? Contact BuckettLaw today. We’re here to keep your celebrations compliant, fun and your employment relationships constructive—not destructive.

Ho Ho Ho and merry holidays from us!

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BuckettLaw takes no responsibility for the consequences of any actions taken on the basis of our articles. Any views expressed or comments made in an article are the writers opinion only. The content in our articles does not constitute legal advice. If you need legal or expert advice you should obtain specific advice about your case or matter from a professional. For legal advice based on your individual situation please contact us to speak with one of our expert lawyers.

Barbara Buckett

Barbara Buckett is a highly experienced senior employment lawyer with over 35 years of practice in New Zealand. She provides expert advice on all areas of employment law and has a proven track record of delivering excellent results for clients. Barbara has extensive experience in resolving workplace issues and is an experienced litigator. In her free time, she enjoys reading, traveling, working out, and fine wine and dining with friends.

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